This study seeks to explain the intimacy of marriage based on psychological coping styles and resilience in women with emotional divorce. The research is descriptive and correlational. The study population included all women with emotional divorce who referred to centers and psychological clinics and among those 300 were selected. 150 of them were based on research and predictor variables that were selected using multi-stage cluster sampling and responded the questionnaire of emotional divorce Guttmann (2008), marital intimacy Walker and Thompson (1983), coping styles Lazarus - Folkman (1988) and hardiness scale Kiamrsy et al (1377). Data obtained by multiple regression and correlation analysis was performed with SPSS software. The results showed a positive relationship between marital intimacy and problem-focused coping styles. (P<0.01). There is a negative relationship between marital intimacy and emotion-focused coping styles (P<0.05). There is a positive relationship between marital intimacy and psychological hardiness (P<0.01). Also psychological hardiness (Beta =0.434) and problem-oriented coping style (Beta = 0.265) can be changed to significantly predict marital intimacy.